"Help! My Teen is
Dating"
Real Solutions to Tough Conversations
"When
it comes to dating & sex, find out how parents are getting their
teens to SLOW DOWN."
Discover the #1 way to
protect your teenager from dangerous sexual situations,
especially when it comes to dating, parties, "hook-ups", and even
rape.
By
Mike Domitrz ..Author, Expert, Father, and Executive Director of
The Date Safe Project.
A teenager is being fondled by a date, performing oral sex, or
being pressured into intercourse. Scary? Yes. Are
you thinking, "Not my son or daughter?" Maybe
not right now, but when will this happen to them? If your answer is "NEVER," then stop reading. This website is for parents who have the common sense to realize the dangers that exist for teenagers. Sooner or later, your teenager will be old enough to date or go to a party.
With
all the pressure for teens be sexually active today, how long will
it be before your teenager will want to experience intimacy? You know sexual thoughts and feelings are normal for teenagers, especially with all the hormonal changes they are going through.
From
sexual assault cases involving teens in middle school to high school students engaging in
oral
sex, the sexual dangers are
monumental for your son or daughter. According to the
Center for Disease Control, more than 50% of teens ages 15 to 19
have engaged in oral sex (as cited in "Teen Sex Statistics").
What if you could greatly reduce the risks for your teenager?
What if you could increase your son or daughter's ability to protect
themselves and make better choices concerning both themselves and their partners? You can. First, you
have to find a way to get your teenager to want to listen to you.
Parents continually report that getting your teenager to listenwhen discussing
dating and sexual issues is a nightmare. How about your
teenager? When you've tried talking about dating and sex, has
your teen given you one or more of the following reactions:
Rolling of the
eyes
The look of
"You don't know anything. You can't relate. You don't get it."
"Yea,
Yea, Whatever" as they
walk away.
"I am not talking
with YOU about this."
"I get it, okay?"
"I'm
not doing any of this stuff anyways. You don't need to worry."
Every parent has been given that
"look" by their kids. To overcome this communication
barrier and truly protect your teen from today's dangers, you need
a precise step-by-step plan of what to say and how to say the
right words. Once you understand the dynamics to such a
comprehensive plan, talking with your son or daughter about dating and sex no longer
has to be synonymous with frustration. A fun,
thought-provoking, and meaningful conversation between the two of
you is waiting to happen.
Picture
having an in-depth discussion on sex and dating with your teen
and then hearing him or her say, "Thanks for sharing with
me. This was actually fun." Imagine
your teenager coming home from a date and telling you it was the
best date ever because the 2 of them clearly discussed their
boundaries and beliefs with each other throughout the evening.
Hear your daughter telling you how she let the guy know what she
believes in and how she expects to be treated. She is excited
to tell you how much he respected her for being upfront with him.
Your son will tell you how impressed his date was that he was honest
and does not play "games" like the other guys do.
Think
about how much better you'll sleep knowing your teenager has the
right values; chooses to only date people who they respect (and
vice-versa); and makes
great choices with high standards. You can equip your
teenager with these essential tools in as little as 85 minutes of
spending time together. All you need are the proven methods
for engaging a teenager when talking about dating, boundaries, respect,
and intimacy.
How
can this be done in only 85 minutes? You and your teenager
will watch a DVD that truly ignites a healthy and positive conversation
between the two of you. This film will bring you and your
teen closer together. No, not one of
those corny educational DVDs that make teenagers feel like they are
2nd graders. This DVD is fun, interactive, cutting-edge,
and thought-provoking for both your teenager and you.
My name
is
Mike Domitrz.
In 1990, I
started working specifically with teenagers around the United States
addressing healthy dating, respect, communication, and sexual
assault awareness. Each year, I am blessed to have schools in
over 85 cities around the country bring me in to give multiple
presentations in their community.
Due to my speaking and the many
educational resources we create for students, parents, and schools
(books, posters, awareness campaigns, and more), I continually hear
directly from
teenagers throughout North America each week. Their e-mails
and comments over the years have provided me with an inside
understanding of what
teenagers want and need from their parents. Now when I
present evening programs for parents (after speaking at their kids'
school throughout the day), I take those findings and reveal how each
parent can use these "inside
secrets" in their own homes to enhance relationships with
their sons and daughters.
Using
this new approach, parents began telling me how their teenagers were now listening and sharing with them. Teenagers
were e-mailing and saying how they were able
to talk to their parents for the first time without holding anything back.
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“Parenting is challenging at any age but
parenting a teen is hardest of all.
Mike Domitrz understands the tension between teens
and their parents and even more critically, between
teens and their peers.
Whether
you have boys or girls, you will discover from Mike
how to get your teenagers to have high standards,
make good choices, and only date partners who
give them total respect. Every parent
needs to use Mike's
proven
approach to making our
teens
safer on dates!"
Linda Hugle,
Principal of North Valley High School in Grants Pass, OR
Suddenly, families were contacting us and saying, "You must make
a DVD so families around the country can use these skills with
their teenagers. Every family will benefit fromvisually seeing and hearing the examples from a live presentation, especially theclear-cut way to word
delicate conversations with teens. "
In
2007, the Help! My Teen is Dating. Real Solutions
to Tough Conversations DVD was released - filled with over 85
minutes of easy to understand lessons for everyone. You
get a DVD filled with specific and realistic solutions. Watching the DVD, you
will discover:
How to start the talk and get your teen
to listen. This one method
will transform how you talk to with your
teenager from now on (about anything).
Have less stress and more fun
together.
"Some
say common sense is gone. but it is alive and well
with Mike Domitrz! This video gives an
easy, common sense approach to a very difficult
subject – kids and dating. Mike has
put together humor with common sense to make you and
your kids want to talk about dating in a mature manor
without being corny!
This is a MUST have for all parents with teenagers.”
~ Bill Teater, Parent and Producer of Greater Cincinnati
Prom Fairs (OH)
Three questions that define if your teen
should be dating. Choosing a
dating age is one of the most common
mistakes parents make. When you
realize this system for deciding when to
date, you will feel much better about
your child being out with someone else.
Best of all, your teenager will be
safer.
What to say to your teen's date.
Most parents mess up this
area of teen dating. When you
discover the right way to address your
teen's dating partner, you and your
child will have a tighter bond
(including sharing a few laughs). More
importantly, your teen will respect
you and be more open with you.
The exact words for addressing intimacy.
Words are powerful. Each word you
choose will impact your teenager's
personal views of their body and
sexuality. This one aspect will
have the biggest influence on your
child's happiness in future
relationships, including marriage.
How to establish clear & reasonable
boundaries. Your beliefs are
going to be a little different than your
teenager's views. If you ask your
child, they may say they have the same
views because they don't want to
disappoint you. When you
understand how to bring out the true
differences, you then establish the
fundamentals for your teenager speaking
out for herself (or himself).
"As a
mother of teens,
Help! My Teen Is Dating has proven to be a
powerful tool which allowed me to begin a
conversation on a sensitive topic without feeling
awkward. After
viewing the video with my daughter, I feel she now
has the tools and insights to make healthier and safer
choices. Plus, Mike Domitrz's approach
has helped remove many of my own fears."
~ Laura
Stockdale, Community Speakers Forum Coordinator and
Parish Episcopal School Board of Trustees (Dallas, TX)
The power in Asking First.
This simple concept is the most popular
solution to eliminating the dangerous
"dating games" teenagers play.
As a parent, you will love this section!
The best way to discuss the dangers:
from Alcohol to Sexual Assault. As
you know, alcohol and drugs (including
date rape drugs) are commonly used to
rape women. In fact, some
teenagers brag about how drunk they get
their partners before engaging in sexual
activity. Schools do not do a good
job teaching the reality of this threat.
The proof is that most students do not
believe it will happen to them.
Every parent needs their child to
realize this scare is real and then how
to safeguard against it! PLUS how to teach your child that it is NOT his or her fault if someone uses alcohol to take advantage of your child!!
"Help!
My Teen Is Dating DVD and book package is an
excellent resource for parents of teenagers.
The program will help parents help their kids
stay safe in the dating process."
~ John Bowen, Board of Governors for Wisconsin School Counselor
Association
How to truly “Be There” for your child.
Dating is dangerous and it involves
great risk. As we discussed
earlier, you can't be with your child at
all times. The greatest choice you
can make is to give your teen every
possible tool to protect herself (or
himself) and make the best choices. Even so, things go wrong. People are out there who don't care about your child. What if something did go
wrong? What if your child was
sexually assaulted? How would you
handle it? Do you think your
teenager would tell you?
The greatest lesson I have learned
traveling the country working with
survivors of sexual assault is this one
message: "Unless you say the right
words to your child BEFORE a sexual
assault occurs, odds are slim your child
will ever tell you." Wanting to empower their teenager, lots of parents mistakenly tell their child they have total control over everything. Doing so implies anything that happens is your child's fault. .......Plus WAY too many
parents make the crucial mistake of
telling their daughter, "I'll kill
anyone who ever hurts you or touches you
against her will."
Survivors state over and over how that
one sentence is the #1 reason they never
tell their parents what happened.
Find out what your teenager needs
to hear you say! The right
message is called "Opening the Door"
and you will be emotionally moved when
you discover the power in saying it.
"Help!
My Teen Is Dating is a wonderful resource
for parents with kids of all ages. It provides
realistic, procedural steps to follow when talking
to your kids about dating, relationships, and sex.
It teaches empathy and understanding to parents as
if they were in counseling training to
help
them better connect with their kids. This video
makes great strides in getting parents to talk to their
kids about sensitive issues. In the end, Mike
Domitrz helps
everyone make educated choices together."
Necessary skills to get your teenager to
make good choices. When you
discover how to talk with your teen
about dating, the lessons crossover to
all areas of life. If you can make
a good dating choice, you can handle
peer pressure better and stand up for
yourself on any issue. Now you
have a child who is more confident and
wants to do the right thing.
"Help! My Teen Is Dating
provides parents and others with the
tools necessary to have
conversations with their teenagers
as they begin to explore deeper
relationships.
It
encourages parents and others to demonstrate
the care and concern that sometimes
gets lost in the everyday routine of
life,which in turn, nurtures teens’
self-confidence and the ability to
make choices they won’t later
regret.
Listen, learn, be ready…watchHelp! My Teen Is Dating!”
~
Renée and Charlie Barr, educators and parents of two
young women
Essential tips to fun and safer dating
for your son or daughter. Do
you know the best time for your teenager
to go on a date? Do you know the
worst place for a teenager to go?
The DVD will uncover lots of surprise
tips for dating that you never thought
of.
Real-life scenes. Throughout
the DVD, you
get to observe parents and teenagers
participating in role-playing scenarios.
Seeing real-world
examples makes using the information much
easier for your family.
Cutting-edge material.
In Help! My Teen is Dating,
you are given the precise ways to
challenge and support your teenager in
a way that is both new, effective, and
exciting! You will find yourself:
Laughing
alongside your teenager
Excited to have a better connection with your teenager.
Riveted by the precise "How To" details given to you.
Filled with a new
level of confidence in having these dialogues.
Timing.
You will find out how to start
the talk at the
right time with
the
correct approach.
You pick the wrong time
and all you get is a very annoyed teenager
who feels she (or he) is being forced to
listen. Pick the right time and your child will be better prepared to protect
themselves.
Plus, I promise
you'll have lots of fun watching
the DVD together! Why do I keep promising
you'll have fun?
When tackling a serious and sensitive subject, humor is essential to
keep people's minds open and paying attention. When you and your teenager are having a good time together,
barriers blocking communication naturally disappear. Talking
honestly is suddenly much easier!
Reserve your copy today.
"You’ll Also Get THREE Additional Bonuses"
BONUS #1: Mike's book, May
I Kiss You? Dating, Communication,
Respect, & Sexual Assault Awareness, is
loved by teenagers. Once they read it
for themselves, they start passing it around
to their friends. Suddenly it is the
hot topic among their peer group. Now,
you have a great way to keep these vital
lessons with your teenager throughout the
year!!
Why do both
parents and teenagers love this book?
May I Kiss You? offers an
in-depth look at the realities of dating and
intimacy. While most people simply “make
their move” on a date, Mike Domitrz reveals
why "asking first" makes all the
difference. Domitrz’s candid advice,
real-life scenarios, and innovative
exercises will alter people’s approach to
dating while adding romance, building
respect, and heightening their awareness of
sexual misconduct and assault.
From teenagers to mature adults,
people of all ages are turning to this
innovative, respectful, and fun approach to
dating. You get this bonus
included (retail value of $15.95 per book).
Questions and Answers Provided in May I Kiss You?
Dating Fear Factors
Asking? Are you crazy?
Rejection
Body Language Challenge
Values
Respect
Long-term Relationships
Dating Gender Gap
Help
Privacy
Blame
Family & Friends
Responsible Change
Self-Defense
Awareness
20 Interactive Exercises
Tips for Healthy & Fun Dating
Peer Pressure
Alcohol & Date Rape Drugs
Parties
Sexual Harassment
Double Standards
Talking
Supporting Survivors
"Opening the Door" for
Survivors
The Pledge to Protect
Making a Difference
BONUS #2: The 2nd
book Mike includes with the DVD set is
Voices of Courage: Inspiration from
Survivors of Sexual Assault. This
one-of-a-kind book is known for changing
both parents' and teenagers' realizations of
how often and traumatic sexual violence is
in the lives of both male and female
teenagers. Once a teenager comprehends
a real and potential danger in his or her
life, change is ready to occur.
This book is utilized in
schools and educational centers throughout the world to help students
realize the incredible dangers that exist in the world of dating and
sex.
You get BONUS #2
included (retail value of $16.95).
BONUS #3:
The Award-Winning Book 52 Ways to Protect Your Teen E-book by
Susie Vanderlip is included!! Discover 336 pages of simple and
immediate solutions for helping your teenage daughter or son tackle
various challenges they will face every day.
”This
is excellent reading for adults and teenagers. 52 Ways is
trustworthy information, sound advice, and an excellent resource
that parents and teenagers can use to make a great success out of
this challenging stage of life.” – Dr. Art Ulene, Former NBC
Today Medical Expert
You get BONUS #3
included (retail value of $24.95).
Incredible Value. Add all 3 bonuses and the value for the
bonuses alone is over $57.00.
"The Power of Watching it Together"
Watch the video below and see the difference
Help! My Teen is
Dating
is making in the lives of parents, families, and educators
throughout the country.
To start the video, click on the
pause button until it turns into a "play" button. Then, click
on the "play" button. Find out what parents are saying . . .
While making this DVD
for you, I
had one rule.
Help! My Teen is Dating must
be available at such a reasonable price that every family
can afford it. While other DVDs and
systems on
parenting can cost hundreds of dollars, we wanted to
insure a win-win for everyone and so our
motto was: "Parents should be able to buy
this DVD for the same price as going out to
a movie and quick dinner." Any
parent who is serious about their teenagers
safety, sexuality, and understanding of
relationships knows you can't go wrong for
that price.
How much of a savings are we currently
offering? Our biggest ever.
We know the
importance of getting this material into
your hands.
The value of
the three bonus books is over $57.00 alone.
The total package of the DVD (retail price of $49.97) and the three
bonus books
gives you over $100 worth of value. Because we are about to launch a new website, we are having a special CLEARANCE sale to make room and so you'll get all three books & the DVD when you order right
now for only $24.97
+ s/h.
Secure your copy now.
"Here Is How It Works"
When you click on the order button below,
you'll go to my secure order page for your
credit card information. When you use my
secure order form, you'll be able to
download the e-book May I Kiss You?
immediately as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.
Your transaction is secure—using our secure server, your order
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Awareness Publications' with our toll-free U.S.
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The whole process takes just a few minutes and you'll be reading
your e-book of May I Kiss You? in about 5 minutes. Plus,
you will receive an e-mail with a website
address to instantly download Susie
Vanderlip's E-book 52 Ways to Protect
Your Teen. The DVD and the rest of
the entire package will
be shipped out within 24 hours.
When you download the e-books, scan
them a couple of times and read the
parts that jump out at you right away—then go back and read them cover to
cover. By doing so, you will really be ready when the complete DVD
package shows up
in your mailbox.
Next, start applying the ideas
in your everyday conversations with your
teenager. You'll notice a difference right away, and it will encourage
you to continue using many more of the ideas.
Whatever happens, you'll use this reference library constantly as
you're learning how to be successful with getting your teenager to
listen and open up.
Let’s Wrap This Up
Here's a recap of what you're going to get:
You Get Everything:
“Help! My
Teen is Dating” DVD for helping protect your teenager.
“May I Kiss
You?" paperback and e-book you're teenager will love having as a resource to
safer dating.
“Voices of
Courage” paperback and e-book to give you and your teenager a better
understanding of sexual violence.
"52 Ways to Protect Your Teen" e-book will get you thinking of
new ways to protect your teen on various challenges they
face.
These extra bonuses alone are worth over $57.00.
You'll get all of them for FREE, just for TRYING the DVD.
Let me ask you this: What if this knowledge helps you
protect your teenager from just
ONE dangerous and life-changing situation? Just ONE. What
would that be worth to you?
Now ask yourself: What if there's even a chance this
DVD and book set can actually teach you how to better prepare your teenager - and
help you know you are doing everything possible as a parent? What
if watching this DVD resulted in your son or daughter absolutely
knowing they could come to you about anything, especially if
they were sexually
assaulted or hurt?
How much would that be worth to you? For most
parents I know, it would be priceless. Just the POSSIBILITY
of having this kind of positive impact on your child's life is
awesome.
If
you read my
background,
you know why I care so much about protecting
today's teenagers. As a fellow
parent and the brother of a sexual assault
survivor, I know how much you want your teenager
to make strong and healthy choices,
especially when it comes to their bodies and
sexual situations.
Many parents continually tell us they wish
they would have been able to buy this knowledge, insight, and
experience for $49.97 when their kids first became teenagers (keep in mind you are getting it for only $24.97). Moms
and Dads who have this DVD package continually e-mail us saying how much this one DVD has changed their relationship with
their teenager for the better (you will read a few of these e-mails in a
few moments). And I know that you'll
be thrilled to have this same level of success with your teenager.
Why I do speak so confidently in this DVD? Because I
believe nothing should be made if it is not done right! For
this reason, you will get a money-back guarantee with this entire
package. In a few moments, you will get the details.
"I
found myself laughing, answering the questions, and
nodding my head in agreement with the audience.
We've all been told to ‘keep the lines of
communication open’ with our sons and daughters, but
nobody ever tells us how to do that. As a
parent and educator, I guarantee that this video will
give you the tools to talk to your teen about
feelings and issues you thought were impossible to
discuss."
~ Cheryl Einsweiler, Parent and Community
Resources/Educator (IA)
This much is for sure: For the
rest of your child's teenage years and even into their twenties,
relationships and intimacy are going to have a major influence on their
happiness and success. Make a positive difference in your
child's life starting today.
Start
now.
Think about it…
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I promise you you'll be able to use the lessons in this
DVD and the 3 BONUS books to better prepare your teenager, but I want you to be absolutely sure about it, that's why
I'M NOT GOING TO HAVE YOU TAKE ANY RISK. The DVD and the
books are 100%
guaranteed to be the most powerful educational set on
relationships you've ever purchased for your family -- or your money back!
Here's the deal: Go ahead and
preview this
DVD and book package. You assume zero
risk. If, for any reason, you're not
completely satisfied -- I will be happy to
refund every penny of your purchase.
Just return the DVD and the books within 30
days, and ask for a no-hassle refund. No explanation is necessary.
You are under absolutely no obligation to
keep the set if you're not 100% satisfied.
Once again,
a win-win for you.
I
have always stood by our commitment to
quality. Throughout the country, our
organization has a great reputation for
working with families, schools districts,
government entities, the military, and national
organizations. When working with
The Date Safe Project, you know you are
purchasing from a completely trustworthy
organization.
Start protecting your teenager
immediately - risk
free (along with all the bonuses).
When you click on the button below, you'll be taken to a
secure order page where you can buy the DVD right now (along with the
3 bonus
books included for FREE). Just use a valid credit card for your order.
Then you will instantly be
forwarded to a page where you can download the e-book of May
I Kiss You?. Read the book from cover to cover and
you'll find strategies you can share RIGHT
AWAY with your teenager. I promise.
Within minutes, you will also receive an
e-mail in your inbox with a website address
for you to download your FREE copy of 52
Ways to Protect Your Teen E-book by
Susie Vanderlip. Then within a week,
you will receive the DVD and the two paperback books. Now, you get to take the
conversation to a whole new level.
If, after you've
watched the DVD and read the books, you decide that it's not
for you… or you didn't find any useful information in it for
your situation, simply send everything back to us within 30 days
and you will receive all your money back -- no questions asked.
Regardless, you get to keep the e-book.
I truly want to help you
prepare and protect your teenager. I get emails every day from teenagers sharing how these lessons DRAMATICALLY
helped their dating lives, and
I want to help your teenager too (and you).
Click this button to get Help! My Teen is Dating for 30
days risk-free:
If you have any questions about this
DVD package, just send an
email to
questions@helpmyteenisdating.com and we'll get right back to you with
an answer.
Wishing you the best of relationships with
your family,
Michael J. Domitrz
Executive Director, The Date Safe Project
and Author of "May I Kiss You?" along
with editor of "Voices of Courage"
P.S.
Almost
forgot to tell you about the special bonus sections on the DVD.
You get exclusive sections revealing how to handle:
The Internet and Keeping Your Teen Safe.
In addition to the FREE REPORT we just
e-mailed you, you get some great insight
on how to handle your teens use of the
online world. You get more
control!
Spirituality, Faith, & Dating.
For
families who's religion is important,
you will find this special feature a
great addition to the DVD. You
will learn how to incorporate religion
appropriately into the discussion.
Sexual Choices Our Teens Face.
Yes, our teens have more opportunities
for sexual experiences than most of your
generation did. What is common
around the country? What is really
going on. Find out here.
Access to Special Downloads. In
addition to receiving the paperback
books, you get e-book versions included
on the DVD and several articles to
download. Share them with
family & friends.
A Few More Reviews from Parents, Experts,
and Educators . . .
"Mike Domitrz offers more than practical advice for
parents. Throughout,
Mike actually demonstrates the tools for
talking with your teen about these issues."
~ Rob Rephan, Rape Prevention Education Coordinator
(CA)
"Every student, whether male or female, needs to use
Mike's asking approach.
Every parent
who is worried about their sons' and daughters' dating
relationships (that's most of us!)
should give the "May I Kiss You?"
book to their teenagers."
~ Charles Zastrow, Ph.D., Department of Social Work,
University of Wisconsin - Whitewater
"The DVD answers a lot
of questions parents have about how far to 'get
involved', how to get
teenagers to
trust parents, and knowing when to trust
your child."
~ Nicole Saavedra, Youth Services Coordinator for East
Granby (CT)
"At last, a how-to kit for parents navigating
the treacherous territory of teen dating. This DVD
will give you the confidence, skills, and information to
truly engage your child in a dialogue about the
important issues teens face in these relationships."
~
Carolyn Pukl, Health Educator at Lakeland Regional High
School (NJ)
"HELP!
My Teen Is Dating
is both funny, engaging, and
educational. It will help you understand why a rock
solid youth will give way to peer pressure. As a parent,
I highly recommend it!"
~
John Hathaway, Health
Educator & Parent (ID)
"The most
important issues facing our youth today have been
addressed in this sensational book
on dating and sexual assault awareness. The angles
taken by Domitrz reach the inner most thoughts of
all ages, giving the reader
detailed solutions to the entire dating experience.
A must read!"
~ Sharlene Stewart, a parent from Immaculata, PA
"Mike does an amazing job guiding parents on how to communicate with their teenagers about dating
safely.
Help! My Teen is Dating
provides real solutions for parents and teaches
fundamental respect for all people. A definite
'10'!"
~ Rose J. Torgerson,
Sexual Assault Services and Education Coordinator for
Cedar Valley Friends of the Family (IA)
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